Perfect.

A short while ago, I remember sharing with Flo that my 21st, while memorable, carries with it a bitter tinge. I had a lovely birthday at Peony Jade where I followed through with an oriental theme. I was surrounded by friends and family. I was surprised at midnight by my friends coming over to wish…

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Preying on Vulnerabilities.

I think one of the most difficult things about being female in Singapore is the pressure to conform to the world. Singapore is so diverse in its culture not just in terms of ‘Asianess‘ but also in terms of influence from the West. Traditionally, and stereotypically, women in Singapore are expected to look petite, gentle,…

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About the Period.

Last Tuesday, I spent a good half a day at the hospital, beginning with my first consultation with Dr. V to discuss my still missing period. I’m glad I hauled all my pap smear results, pelvic and transvaginal ultrasounds, and blood test results because they helped her get a better idea of my overall reproductive…

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