Fundamentals of Us.

I’ve been staying away from blogging a few weeks now because so many things have been happening. I can’t claim to know much about how to build up and maintain a healthy relationship and/or marriage, but I believe that some of the practices that Flo and I try to follow have helped us to create…

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Speak Up. Move On.

I used to cringe whenever we experienced bad service at a restaurant and Mum would complain to the manager, or Dad would make us all walk out. I wondered why they had to do things like that because it was embarrassing to me. Now I’m all grown up and out of the sheltered wings of…

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My Little Heartbreak.

Disclaimer: This was written on 9th May so grandma’s birthday (at the end of this post) is actually on the 8th. Also, if you’re squirmy about female things, you may not want to read any further. 🙂  As I sat in Dr. A’s clinic this afternoon, I started tearing. I generally don’t like crying in…

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May Day Shenanigans.

May Day this year turned out to be one of those public holidays that makes no sense to me in the sense that it fell on a Tuesday. So Flo had to go into work for a day and then he was off the next, which made Wednesday feel again like a Monday and my…

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Belonging.

I remember the times back in University where I allowed myself to shuffle in and out of superficial relationships, preferring not to cultivate deeper connections with the people around me lest they leave me eventually. I think a lot of it goes back to when I was growing up and moving from country to country…

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